Thursday, February 12, 2015

What is True Love?


True love-- wherever you find it, whatever form it assumes, whether you know it as the love of God to you, as your love to God, or as your love to the brethren,--always consists in God's love of us not in our love of God. This is clearly and indubitably revealed in the one great act of God's love: the sending of His Son to be a propitiation for our sins. Therein you taste and see not only that God loved us, but that His love is sovereign and free, self-existent and independent.

Love is the bond of perfectness. It is a spiritual bond that is established and functions only in the sphere of moral perfection. Not in darkness, but in the light; not in the sphere of the lie, but in the truth; not in iniquity, but in righteousness; not in corruption, but in holiness-- in a word, solely in the sphere of ethical perfection does the fire of love burn, does the light of love shine, does the bond of love knit being to being. The wicked do not love, whatever other bond there is between them. Love is the bond of perfection.

It is the attraction of person to person in the sphere of the light. It is the longing of spirit for spirit, a seeking and finding of each other, a living into each other's life, a giving wholly of each to the other, a complete passion for the other, a seeking of each other's good, the will to please each other, a perfect delight in each other-- all in the sphere of ethical perfection.

Herein is love...

Not that we loved God, but that He loved us.

Impossible it would be to make a statement of this kind to describe and characterize the bond of love between two human beings. Between them, love is and must be bilateral, two-sided, mutual. The love of the one is incapable of kindling love in the other. The bond of love can be established between them only when the love of each meets and mingles with the love of the other, and it can be maintained only as long as each constantly continues to meet the love of the other.

Not so with the love of God. It is strictly unilateral, not only in origin but also in its continued operation. It does not consist in our loving God and in His loving us because we love Him. Nor is the nature of love that God and we simultaneously bring our love to each other. It dare not even be said that love is established between God and us by Christ's position between God and us, so that Christ causes God to love us and kindles the flame of the love of God in us. Love is of God. Before we loved Him, He loved. Before Christ was sent into the world to be a propitiation for our sins, He loved us. To be sure, we love Him too; but even then love is of God. His love is the great, the eternal, the unquenchable fire that kindles all our love and that lights all the candles of our love. Even as in the firmament the light is of the sun, and this light of the sun is reflected in the moon, so love is of God, and our love is never more than the reflection of His love. Herein is love... Of Him, and through Him, and unto Him is love. Sovereign is the love of God.


Herman Hoeksema

All Glory To The Only Good God, 91-94

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